Spend on conflict tools, money agreements, and sleep — not only on spectacle that ends at midnight.
Spend on the system, not the spectacle.
Other Truths you may like to hear
Relationships
Love alone preserves nothing
Date the practical reality, not the potential.
RelationshipsYou cannot rehabilitate anyone
Marry who they are today, or run.
RelationshipsChemistry is not compatibility
Check money, sleep, family, and conflict styles.
RelationshipsA prenup is adult paperwork
Write the exit while you still like each other.