If you must dim to keep them comfortable, leave the lamp. Love that needs your smallness is management, not care.
If you must dim to keep them, leave the lamp.
Other Truths you may like to hear
Relationships
Love alone preserves nothing
Date the practical reality, not the potential.
RelationshipsYou cannot rehabilitate anyone
Marry who they are today, or run.
RelationshipsChemistry is not compatibility
Check money, sleep, family, and conflict styles.
RelationshipsA prenup is adult paperwork
Write the exit while you still like each other.